Category: Stella grey

Is this a relationship? Toss a coin.

A few readers have written to me, asking “Is this a relationship?”  Because it seems the definition is so fluid nobody knows what they’re doing. Or what they’re investing. Back when WOE wore lycra mini dresses (flat shoes of course)  it seemed…

The bearable lightness of online dating

Ok listen up. There is a lot of unnecessary heartbreak, regret, hand-wringing and second-guessing going on and it’s got to stop. As I wrote a long time ago on WOE: sometimes in life, shit happens but this isn’t shit we’re…

In matters of lust, act professional

It’s not inconceivable that mobile communication may one day be proved responsible for more people not talking to each other than the other way around. Smart phones are only smart if you know how to use them but it seems, in…

Alas poor Stella Grey

“Edgy,” said the Editors. “Groundbreaking,” they all agreed. And then, having decided to commission a dating column by yet another divorced journalist who could not understand why a man would leave her, they went to the pub. To make it…