Category: sex

Should you be dating?

Online dating frequently presents itself as a safe haven where you can meet others who are are all apparently online for the very same purpose. It’s sold as a huge sweetie shop where hundreds of people just like you are also looking…

Want dating advice from a WOE?

Since August 2015 I have been tossed around on uncertain seas. There was Bob who died on April 22 and you can read about that here and I could say many things except that I did make a fine speech…

The Advantages of Age

Along with a couple of other clever ladies (I might be one of them) we have set up this site to counter the media narrative that women over 45 are dead and the execrable captions underneath pictures of women that…

Where am I and what am I doing?

Good question. Well firstly I am in Australia where I have been for a few months and I’m kind of lost in the emotional ether. There is far too much going on. I have fallen for someone who is unfortunately…

When did Aussie Men get scared?

Australia was once thought of as a land where men were direct, brave and they liked to fuck. I know, because I grew up here and there was a lot of fun to be had. Especially if you worked in advertising…

Stella Grey: The Guardian got it wrong

Your comments and correspondence have increasingly insisted  I should step into the parallel universe of dating that is the Stella Grey Experience. I didn’t want to go there, partly because I don’t want to be accused of picking on easy…

Is this a relationship? Toss a coin.

A few readers have written to me, asking “Is this a relationship?”  Because it seems the definition is so fluid nobody knows what they’re doing. Or what they’re investing. Back when WOE wore lycra mini dresses (flat shoes of course)  it seemed…

The bearable lightness of online dating

Ok listen up. There is a lot of unnecessary heartbreak, regret, hand-wringing and second-guessing going on and it’s got to stop. As I wrote a long time ago on WOE: sometimes in life, shit happens but this isn’t shit we’re…