Category: Men you can’t understand

Should you be dating?

Online dating frequently presents itself as a safe haven where you can meet others who are are all apparently online for the very same purpose. It’s sold as a huge sweetie shop where hundreds of people just like you are also looking…

Want dating advice from a WOE?

Since August 2015 I have been tossed around on uncertain seas. There was Bob who died on April 22 and you can read about that here and I could say many things except that I did make a fine speech…

When did Aussie Men get scared?

Australia was once thought of as a land where men were direct, brave and they liked to fuck. I know, because I grew up here and there was a lot of fun to be had. Especially if you worked in advertising…

Is this a relationship? Toss a coin.

A few readers have written to me, asking “Is this a relationship?”  Because it seems the definition is so fluid nobody knows what they’re doing. Or what they’re investing. Back when WOE wore lycra mini dresses (flat shoes of course)  it seemed…

In matters of lust, act professional

It’s not inconceivable that mobile communication may one day be proved responsible for more people not talking to each other than the other way around. Smart phones are only smart if you know how to use them but it seems, in…

Ask, don’t always get.

Call me old fashioned but I don’t really consider “Do you like anal?” a great question and definitely not a first date discussion.. This does not seem to stop some men who feel that the initial process of getting to know…

Alas poor Stella Grey

“Edgy,” said the Editors. “Groundbreaking,” they all agreed. And then, having decided to commission a dating column by yet another divorced journalist who could not understand why a man would leave her, they went to the pub. To make it…

Be who you are

Since the age of seven when I unceremoniously slammed the door on boring Leanne and her stupid doll, I’ve known that my membership of the solidarity sisters was limited. I’m not a woman’s woman. Now before you go all pursed…

Playing hard to get. 1970s style.

On very rare occasions I like to forget that I am a sexually confident woman and immerse myself in articles about how women should really act around men. The thing is I do not go looking for these articles. They…