Category: Dating sites

Never Date In The January

There are two things I suggest you don’t do in the The January. The first is not to spend any time around somebody who’s announced their desire to diet. There is a simple, scientific reason for this: Fat Flotation. When your…

Should you be dating?

Online dating frequently presents itself as a safe haven where you can meet others who are are all apparently online for the very same purpose. It’s sold as a huge sweetie shop where hundreds of people just like you are also looking…

Want dating advice from a WOE?

Since August 2015 I have been tossed around on uncertain seas. There was Bob who died on April 22 and you can read about that here and I could say many things except that I did make a fine speech…

Where am I and what am I doing?

Good question. Well firstly I am in Australia where I have been for a few months and I’m kind of lost in the emotional ether. There is far too much going on. I have fallen for someone who is unfortunately…

When did Aussie Men get scared?

Australia was once thought of as a land where men were direct, brave and they liked to fuck. I know, because I grew up here and there was a lot of fun to be had. Especially if you worked in advertising…

Stella Grey: The Guardian got it wrong

Your comments and correspondence have increasingly insisted  I should step into the parallel universe of dating that is the Stella Grey Experience. I didn’t want to go there, partly because I don’t want to be accused of picking on easy…

Is this a relationship? Toss a coin.

A few readers have written to me, asking “Is this a relationship?”  Because it seems the definition is so fluid nobody knows what they’re doing. Or what they’re investing. Back when WOE wore lycra mini dresses (flat shoes of course)  it seemed…

Tinder Melbourne: The Unready Man

By a series of strange, not totally positive happenings, I have found myself in Melbourne, city of my birth, for a while. Three and half weeks in I was getting bored and decided it would be fun to get laid.…