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Fucking hell, I’m back

Hello dear reader, we had problems with getting the site up and running again due to my lovely web developer dealing with his own life. It was of course utterly selfish of him to put his needs first but now…

Stella Grey: The Guardian got it wrong

Your comments and correspondence have increasingly insisted  I should step into the parallel universe of dating that is the Stella Grey Experience. I didn’t want to go there, partly because I don’t want to be accused of picking on easy…

Bob and the brain tumour

Following a few recent comments, I’m a little worried as there are some people who don’t seem to realise much of what I write is light satire and observation. For the record, the following piece is written absolutely straight up. It…

Men like pictures. So do I.

Aside from never making the same relationship mistake twice, one of the few advantages of being a woman of experience is understanding that you cannot change the way a man thinks. There is no way to break this to you…

Ask, don’t always get.

Call me old fashioned but I don’t really consider “Do you like anal?” a great question and definitely not a first date discussion.. This does not seem to stop some men who feel that the initial process of getting to know…

Alas poor Stella Grey

“Edgy,” said the Editors. “Groundbreaking,” they all agreed. And then, having decided to commission a dating column by yet another divorced journalist who could not understand why a man would leave her, they went to the pub. To make it…

The meaning of curly hair

Today as I was Sunday tweeting I met a wonderful lady called Stefanie Gunning who lives online, here. Stefanie writes well about many subjects, but what I love about her most is that she too has uncontrollable hair. Her hair has…